Hi Ayca!!! Thank you so much for your comment, say hi to your boyfriend, he is a smart man!!! :) He is probably right with setting goals too high. My problems also is that I set SO MANY goals at the same time. I am now at the point where I try to figure out so many things at once (job, to move or not to move away, usual stuff that people go through when starting a brand new life), and I tend to TRY TO DO MY BEST in all of that. Which is simply not possible, I am not a superhuman as my grandpa thinks :) But I think that realizing all my "problems" is a part of the solution.